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Wonder Woman Got Me Like...

10/2/2018

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I finally watched Wonder Woman. I'm not a fan of big budget CGI nightmares in general but it was uniquely touching to see women at the center of battle scenes, doing cool martial arts moves and killing the bad guys.

As I watched it I felt profoundly different than when I watch men in those superhero roles and it made me choke up a bit. I could sense on a deep level that I was seeing something very different and very special, and that is why representation is so important.

The closing speech was also super Star-Wars esque, and also incredibly meaningful to me at this particular moment:

I used to want to save the world. To end war and bring peace to mankind; but then I glimpsed the darkness that lives within their light. I learnt that inside every one of them there will always be both. The choice each must make for themselves – something no hero will ever defeat. And now I know... that only Love can truly save the world. So now I stay, I fight, and I give – for the world I know can be. This is my mission now. Forever.   
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How to Nurse a Baby in Public by Momsplained: My reaction

3/13/2018

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This is great! I wish I had been informed about this before I became a mom. I used to be one of those judgy-wudgy people who disliked when people nursed in public. I regret this so much - I was ignorant and had no idea what I was judging. I had no idea I would nurse my own child one day (even when I was super preggo). I did not prepare. I would never have imagined how it would change my life in positive ways and how magical it truly is. I also had no idea how many people struggle with it and planned for it only to have their hearts broken. That some exclusively pump. That they sometimes want to breastfeed really bad but they just can't and their bottle-feeding has nothing to do with your comfort and everything to do with feeding their baby the best way they can. That sometimes pumping doesn't work and direct feeding is the only solution. That breastmilk is a miracle and its potential has only begun to be revealed.

Parents are out here trying to make it through the day. The last thing any parent needs is you judging or shaming them for doing their best.

Parents need support. All parents need adequate family leave to bond with their baby and establish breastfeeding. They need education around breastfeeding. They need access to resources and equipment to facilitate successful breastfeeding. They need adequate insurance coverage to buy pumps and hire lactation consultants. When they return to work they need time and a safe, clean, private space to pump. They need somewhere to store their milk. They need TSA agents to respect their milk and not treat it like it's some kind of security threat.
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Notice how "they need your unsolicited advice, dirty looks and judgmental BS" is not on that list?
Feed your baby whenever and wherever. And really, you shouldn't have to nurse or pump in the bathroom (that's gross). 

#sorrynotsorry #feedthatbaby#normalizebreastfeeding #fedisbest #transinclusive
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Essential Oils Survey

2/2/2018

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4 Wearable Tech Trends for Women

1/31/2018

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Wearables are already big like FitBit and smart watches, but for me they are a bit cost prohibitive. Lately, I've seen a lot of smart jewelry coming out which is cool if you're not sporty or into giant wristwear. They all connect to apps that let you accumulate data overtime like you're some kind of science experiment! Data can be helpful in setting, maintaining, and keeping track of goals.
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We're trying to keep up and do everything, better, faster, and easier. Integrating technology into our bodies makes it more seamless. It's also a status symbol, shows you're fashionable and up with the latest trends.  Wearables are integrating technology more seamlessly into our lives. We want to be the best at everything and being able to track, quantify, and measure everything can be comforting in a high-pressure world. We have to be fit, the perfect parents, and be in tune to what's going on but still be present at the same time. It's exhausting! Our robot friends are here to help,
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I think it also has something to say about women taking more ownership of their health and lifestyle choices. Re-designing a breast pump to be more comfortable, easy to use, and wired can be revolutionary for a lot of women, considering that many companies or public spaces like airports, etc do not provide safe, private, clean or comfortable places for women to pump while traveling away from their babies or working. This could help women be more effective in the work place and less at risk for firing, demotion, or straight up shaming at their jobs. Smart jewelry that helps track menstrual cycles, fitness, etc can help women be more in tune with their bodies and keep them healthier so they can go out and be a major boss at life. A better baby monitor can help prevent SIDS, give mothers with postpartum anxiety or depression a chance to be less vigilant and worried and get the crucial sleep they need to stay mentally and physically healthy. All in all, wearable tech is GREAT for women! The price however, means it's really great for women who can afford it. Hopefully as it catches on it will be more accessible to more people so those that really need it can reap the benefits as well.

I think it's cool and interesting, but not something I'm willing to try right now. I have concerns about privacy and what all this data will be used for and how safe it is. I'm already tetchy about wireless monitors because they can be hacked by creeps who can use them to speak to your baby or just silently watched (you can google a website for live fees of poorly secured wireless cameras - creepy as hell!). I don't think everything about our lives needs to be connected to an app, although I do find them useful for staying organized, remembering things, and tracking my period, stuff like that. I think this is just the beginning and it will get more intense. We are kind of like the frog boiling in the pot with our privacy. Adam Ruins Everything does a great episode about us giving away or data to Facebook, etc. 

It's going to get more intense. I've even read about people being microchipped. We'll become bionic before we know it! I think you can get upset and put on your tinfoil hat or just accept that Facebook, Google, Amazon, etc own our asses and this is the future! I just hope our robot overlords are kind and treat us fairly.  On that note, here are a few wearable tech trends I find fascinating!

Ringly

​Ringly buzzes you for important notifications so you don't obsessively look at your screen and allegedly helps you be more present. It's also pretty and looks like normal jewelry. I'd love to try this and see if it helps me be more in the "now."

Willow Pump

The Willow is a wearable, wireless, app connected breast pump. Instead of pumping in gross closets and bathrooms, it's discreet enough to do at your desk! I for one am ALL for this! I have pumped in hospital waiting rooms, random conference rooms, you name it. I think this would be great for pumping on your commute, on airplanes, and in offices. It's a high price point, but if your insurance can cover it, it's worth its weight in gold! (Note, mine does but not for the full amount, still pretty amazing! Willow also offers financing).

Owlet

According to their site, "the Owlet Smart Sock tracks heart and oxygen levels and sends real-time insights to your phone. It also includes a base station which glows green to reassure you baby is okay but will notify you if heart rate and oxygen levels leave preset zones." If you're anything like me,  you havespent  many a night staring at the tiny glowing screen instead of sleeping, making sure baby is breathing. I'm really eager to try this out just to alleviate some of the new-mom anxiety (normal) and intense post-partum anxiety (normal, but scary) for baby #2. Here's one mom's review below.

BellaBeat Leaf

Bellabeat Leaf is a personal health tracker specifically geared towards women's health (they also have a smart water bottle). This tracker and app encompasses multiple facets of women's health including sleep, activity, stress, meditation sessions, and menstruation. It's a lovely design with lots of options to choose from, and is a similar pricepoint to FitBit. 
I hope you enjoyed my round up of wearable tech for the female future. Whether we come to welcome our robot overlords, or simply become bionic ourselves, these female and mother-centric devices hold a lot of promise. I hope they can become more ubiquitous and offer more diverse price points so more women can enjoy them!
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Poshmark Tips for the Hobby Seller Vol. 2: Product Photos

1/30/2018

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Poshmark Tips for the Hobby Seller Vol. 3: Product Photos || www.nicolecturnbull.com
​As a hobby seller on my favorite peer to peer fashion selling app, Poshmark, I have learned some great tips and tricks in the past year. I by no means represent myself as a power seller who makes an actual income from it - there are plenty of experts out there! This is very much something I do to clean out my closet, and share great items while making a bit of money in return. I've started this little series to share my favorite best practices in the hopes it will help someone else! This second volume is super vital: PRODUCT PHOTOS!

The most important photo you'll take will be your covershot photo. This is what appears front in center in your closet for each listing, what shows up in parties, and in social media share posts, including Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest. 

For me the cover photo is the catalog photo. It should be aspirational - showing what the item looks like as much as possible!
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Here are my top 3 tips for taking an amazing cover shot:
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​1. Location and Background
  • One of my biggest pet peeves is when people photograph clothing on a bare floor or *gasp* on the ground outside! People are going to buy these clothes and put them on their body! So grab a nice clean white sheet, a piece of poster board, or a photo booth backdrop in a neutral color and not too-distracting pattern (woodgrain and marble are very popular). Be sure to smooth it out as much as possible and even steam it if you can (to avoid wrinkles like you can see in this example).
  • A lot of people (myself included) also use fluffy white rugs or sheepskin which really makes the items pop and look high-end! You can grab mine, the RENS Sheepskin at IKEA! Using a consistent background also helps build a specific look and brand for your closet! 
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Here's my standard brick wall background AND a sheepskin, with some pretty silk flowers. This is with natural light on a cloudy day - my favorite light to photograph indoors!
​2. Lighting
  • Just as important as what's behind your photo is what's in front of it! Natural, indirect light takes the best photos! I try to go near an open window through curtains or a skylight to get the least amount of shadow. Flash tends to make items overexposed or catch a reflection so avoid if possible. 
  • If photos are still coming out dark, take full advantage of your phone's photo-editing feature or a  special app like VSCO to make your photos bright and minimize shadows. Note - you can photograph and list items all in one shot via the app, but I usually take photos ahead of time and edit them as they almost always come out too dark! 
Poshmark Tips for the Hobby Seller Vol. 2: Product Photos || www.nicolecturnbull.com
This is a piece of "Marble" patterned scrapbook paper - it's a great size for smaller accessories and jewelry! I bought this in a larger pack but many craft stores sell singles so you can be creative without breaking the bank!
3. Styling
  • Think about what makes you want to buy something. Where are you going to wear it? What accessories will you choose? What's the personality of the person who wears this? I'll add anything from a cute succulent to a pair of headphones, and jewelry, shoes, and other accessories from my closet to help tell a story. 
  • I also nip in the sides to make a shirt or dress look more like a person, things like that. Play around and experiment to make the item look as nice as possible!
  • Also, not everything works in a flat lay - they can be shapeless or hard to see what the actual item will look like, so for those items, I will hang them on a hanger on the back of my door. I added a plant to give the photo some pizazz.  I always take care to ensure that there is nothing visible on the floor or to the side that shouldn't be in the photo (ahem like my many boxes in my office!)
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Styling can be as simple as a tiny plant...
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...or you can go all out with other items from your closet! This covershot is for the scarf, but the purse and bracelet are also for sale!
Aside from your cover shot, be sure to include these other important photos:
  • All tags on the garment or sales tags if the item is new (show the size, fabric content, care instructions, etc.). Sometimes I show the original price on their as well to show what a great deal they are getting!
  • Special details that are interesting about this garment - a special embroidery, a cool button, an interesting buckle. Make sure you highlight these!
  • Any flaws - make sure you disclose these in the text of your listing as well! Failing to disclose these may result in a case being opened against you  and the loss of a customer - not fun!
Here is a sample of all the photos from a single listing:
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I hope you enjoyed these  tips for taking great product photos! Stay tuned for Vol. 3. Leave a comment if there is a specific topic you'd like me to cover in an upcoming installment! Happy Poshing!
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One Success Does Not Make You a Parenting Expert

1/30/2018

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I read a lot of mommy blogs and parenting article sites. My Facebook feed is probably 60% parenting articles, 30% memes and 10% people I actually know. It's ridiculous. Those of us in the supposed Xennial/Milennial generation (you know how I feel about generations based on this previous post) were raised on Googling. What did parents do before the internet? Cry all the time? I can't imagine.

But it's a double-edged sword right? There is a wealth of information at your fingertips but a lot of it is biased, factually incorrect or just plain dangerous. You really have to turn on your bullshit detector. And aside from official aggregate websites for this type of parenting information, you also have the almighty Facebook Mom Groups. These are safe spaces where you can post a photo of your child's actual diarrhea and you will get 50 women chiming in to tell you what to do about it.  Before I was a mom I balked at this. Now I'm like - AWESOME! 

That being said, I have one particular bone to pick. It's those articles based on a parent's ONE experience with getting a child to do something. The ONE time they got them to fall asleep at a specific age, on a specific day. This magic trick worked on their ONE child, and now they are writing an advice article. Me, the reader, desperate to get my child to simply go the fuck to sleep, will read this and think  - YES! I have found the solution! I will breathe deeply while holding my child and she will magically match my deep breathing and magically fall asleep.

HOW ABOUT NO? Let me tell you something. My child has never been a good sleeper, but what I do know is just when I'm about to crack from the sheer torture of 2 solid weeks without sleeping through the night, she suddenly sleeps like a goddamn champion. She passes out in 5 minutes and doesn't wake up til 7:00 AM. Guess what I did to facilitate this miraculous sleep turnaround? NADA. Zip. Zero. Zilch. 

Kids change - constantly! Once you get used to a certain way of things being, and you think you have it figured out, they change. They couldn't live without the blue cup, and now it's all about the green cup. That talking Elmo was their favorite, now it's scary and it must be hidden in a closet where it is now haunting your own dreams. Things are good for a week or two, and then you better hold on to your butt, because things are going to get cray-cray again. It's like kids have a built-in detector for when you're about to have a nervous breakdown and become all cute and sweet and "Mommy you're my best friend - I'm going to float on a puffy little cloud through  my bedtime routine, kiss you on the forehead and sleep for a minimum of 8 hours." 

There is no magic trick. There is only the inevitable ebb and flow of good and bad, light and dark, happiness, and near insanity. This is parenting. The less you try magic tricks and just accept that while sometimes things are going to suck, everything will eventually turn around. It's a rollercoaster with no brakes and everything is on fire, but it's totally worth it when once again, you're on that puffy little cloud with your tiny best friend. 
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It's Okay to Say "Vagina."

1/9/2018

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It's okay to say
Please don't run away! Trust me - you want to hear this.

There is nothing wrong with the word vagina. There is nothing wrong with your actual vagina. It is a word that describes a part of a human body, much like "elbow" or "femur." It's okay to say "vagina." Presumably, not at a work meeting, or in the grocery store, but you know, in private conversations with friends and family or medical professionals. For the purposes of this blog post, however, I mean specifically when talking to your children.

You do not have to say any of following, (unless it makes you super happy, but this is not just about you):
  • Vajayjay 
  • Coochie
  • Ya-Ya
  • Birdie
  • Flower
  • Hoo-hoo (or the also commonly used hoo-ha)
  • Vag (although this one is conveniently short)

Maybe I saw the "Vagina Monologues" one too many times in college. But if being a mom has taught me anything, it's that kids are REAL. They are so real because they haven't learned how to fit themselves into a tiny box yet. They haven't learned social decorum, shame, guilt, etc. that keeps us wanting to take up as little space as possible with our bodies and our thoughts.  When I talk to my daughter, I use the right words.

I learned in an adolescent sexual development class that there is no specific age to start being real about our bodies or sexuality with children - just normalize and be matter of fact from day one. If you are embarrassed, they will be too. I say "vagina" and once my daughter is older and has a larger vocabulary I will help her differentiate from "vulva" and "vagina." I remember hearing it called different things as a kid and I was so confused. I will make sure she knows the correct words so she can tell me if she is in pain or if someone (including other kids) touch her inappropriately (or if she happens to be exploring herself  in public places, where apparently such things are frowned upon).
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I never want her to associate her body or sexuality with secrets and shame. I want her to feel comfortable setting boundaries. I want her to be proud of herself and have high self esteem. I want her to know what is normal and what is not so I can advocate for her, until she can advocate herself, whether it's in the doctor's office or in her personal relationships. The shroud of secrecy over our bodies and sex is what leads to bad relationships, lack of sexual agency, abuse, sexual assault, etc. It's time to end the madness!

This goes for boys too - they should understand what's appropriate, what consent is, and how to appropriately handle any strong sexual feelings or surprise boners without thinking there is something wrong with them. They should know that a girl's short skirt or spaghetti strap is not an invitation or a "yes." 

I'd like to see rape culture, body shaming and slut shaming end in my lifetime... a girl can dream. In the mean time, let's just start with calling our body parts by the right names, 'kay? 
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6 Quick tips for Social Media Sanity

1/9/2018

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  1. Use it as a form of communication. If it's insufficient, pick up the phone. 
  2. Use it to keep tabs on what people are up to, but not to compare yourself and feel inadequate.
  3. Use it to share photos and videos with distant relatives, but don't let it stop you from scheduling a visit in person when you have the time and can afford it.
  4. Use it to share fun articles, funny memes, and inspirational quotes, but don't let it stop you from being creative and creating your own content as well.
  5. Share your voice but not your negativity and drama.
  6. Aim to share, Educate, and enlighten but don't troll or start an argument - they never go anywhere! Know when to walk away.
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Poshmark Tips for the Hobby Seller Vol 1: Packaging

1/9/2018

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Poshmark Tips for the Hobby Seller || Vol 1: Packaging  || www.nicolecturnbull.com

As a hobby seller on my favorite peer to peer fashion selling app, Poshmark, I have learned some great tips and tricks in the past year. I by no means represent myself as a power seller who makes an actual income from it - there are plenty of experts out there! This is very much something I do to clean out my closet, and share great items while making a bit of money in return. I've started this little series to share my favorite best practices in the hopes it will help someone else! This first volume is one of the most basic things and the first thing your customer sees when they place an order: Packaging!

I don't know about you, but I love getting packages and gifts. Online shopping is basically a gift to yourself, so why not make your buyer feel extra special with a pretty package? There's no guarantee it will result in a repeat sale, but there's no guarantee it won't! Here are some quick money and time saving tips for you to put your best foot forward with your Poshmark packaging!
Poshmark Tips for the Hobby Seller || Vol 1: Packaging  || www.nicolecturnbull.com

Poshmark Tips for the Hobby Seller || Vol 1: Packaging  || www.nicolecturnbull.com
1. Reduce, Reuse, Recycle!
  • If I have an appropriate size box or vinyl clothing bag or bubble mailer from Amazon or another online retailer, I will definitely re-use it! (Amazon Prime ensures I never run out!) I make sure to carefully tape up all open seams just in case. I have had buyers tell me that their package came partially open so now I'm always very thorough with the tape!
  • I would not use cereal or granola bar boxes because they are not thick enough and I would be fearful they would rip or crush easily. 
  • Make sure to remove or cover all other barcodes or labels that may confuse USPS.
  • I also save the clear plastic bags that my online orders of clothes come, in to ensure items stay dry in all conditions. Those boxes really get thrown around and you don't want your item to get wet.  You can also buy fresh ones, but I try to reuse as much as possible since plastic is forever!
  • I also save all manner of bubble wrap and sealed air to make sure my items don't' get tossed around and ruin my beautiful wrapping! 

If your customer appreciates eco-friendly practices (which most people do) they will not mind a reused box or packing material. Do what feels authentic to you as a seller and is in keeping with your brand.

2. Get free boxes from USPS!
You can order them online here or pick them up in store. I tend to order in bulk and pick them up when I happen to be at the post office.

3. Order affordable supplies on Amazon
I also have these 10x13 and these 6x9 pretty pink waterproof vinyl mailers for clothing or jewelry. I just wrap the items in bubble wrap if they are vulnerable and they do fine.  I always add some washi tape to the sealed area and then add extra packing tape to secure. I've received fun printed mailers and it always brings a smile to my face. It helps to add to your "brand" as a seller as well.

4. Make it pretty!
I wrap everything in tissue paper (good condition paper saved from birthday and Christmas or procured from the dollar store) and seal with my logo label and tie a nice ribbon or baker's twine around it.

I included a sample image in this listing so people know their package will arrive beautifully. People give my items as gifts also so it saves them the trouble of wrapping. Using special packaging, tissue paper, washi tape, twine, thank you notes, etc is a way to build a relationship with your customer and give them a nice buying experience. 

5. Add a Thank you Note!
This is somethign that is completely optional but is very nice to do. It makes me feel good to write it and I love when I get one from a seller! You can either use thank you notes you have on hand, hit up the Target dollar spot for some cheapies, or just write on a piece of note paper. It's a nice little touch that goes along way.

​6. Wow them with a free gift
Now this is something that not everyone wants to do, but it's very nice. I know I've been super pleased and felt really special to get one. If it's not for me, I just re-gift it to my own buyers the next time I sell something. Things I've included are make up samples from my ipsy subscription, lip glosses (from the party favor section at Target - super affordable!) and cute love-themed pins that I had leftover from my bridal shower. I will tape them to the thank you card with washi tape. It's super pretty and fun. 

I hope you enjoyed these 6 tips. Know that you don't need to spend a lot of extra money to make your packages look pretty. I am a craft supply hoarder (and general hoarder) so I already had these things on hand. If you're just getting started here is a mini shopping list for you:
  1. Packing tape (try to get a gun as it makes it much easier to handle)
  2. Tissue paper (dollar store, christmas clearance, save and re-use
  3. Washi tape (take advantage of craft store coupons by downloading their app!)
  4. Bakers twine or ribbon (make sure you price compare twine in the craft store as it will be priced differently depending on the section it's in - scrapbooking, party supplies, or baking! I love this site for large ribbon orders)
  5. Waterproof vinyl mailers (fun colors and prints if you don't have used bubble mailers, vinyl clothing bags or boxes on hand)
  6. Thank you notes (I love the dollar store and the Target dollar store for cute ones)
  7. Little gifts (buy in bulk or share unused makeup samples or other things that you've accrued but never intend on using, but are still useful and lovely!)
Download the Poshmark App today - use code MOMENT2SHINE to get a $5 credit when you sign up!
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Stay tuned for Vol. 2. Leave a comment if there is a specific topic you'd like me to cover in an upcoming installment! Happy Poshing!

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4 Methods to Minimize Clutter, Make Money, & Live Your Best Life

4/17/2017

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We live in a consumerist, disposable culture. Just watch The Story of Stuff and you'll realize it's not just a personal problem (though many suffer from disorders that cause them to hoard and I by no means wish to trivialize that). Learning about planned obsolescence was a real downer for me: the fact that companies make things specifically to break down faster so you'll buy the newer version. The Earth, and we as humans cannot sustain this forever. I'm sure you have plenty of things you could throw out, or are maybe saving for that magic day when you meet your goal weight, have somewhere to wear it, etc. You can't seem to part with it, but you can't hold on to it forever or you'll literally drown in stuff. If you're feeling stuck, it's time to make a change and start minimizing clutter, making some money, and living your best life!

Ready to get started? It's time to get real. Do some thinking about the following topics before you start decluttering: 
  • No one values your stuff as much as you.
    Unless it's some kind of rare collector's item, a high-end brand name, or something that is actually valuable (like solid gold), you probably will not get back what you paid for it. Be prepared to lose some money.
  • Throwing it away is not a waste - keeping it is!
    You may be holding on to something you never wear or use because you paid a lot of money for it. Is it valuable if it's collecting dust in your closet for years? Things are meant to be used - if you aren't using it, maybe it's time to let someone else! 
  • Clutter can negatively impact your well-being
    Do you look in your closet and immediately close the door? Are you tired of shifting things from one pile to another? How valuable is something when it causes you emotional stress and takes up space? Think of how easy you'll breathe with less clutter blocking your physical space. Envision how relaxed and free you'll feel - this makes the next step easy.
  • Find a method and stick to it!
    There are many methods for de-cluttering, but I love the KonMari Method. It's ruthless and complete and meant to be done only once. It's then maintained by adopting a set of values and habits that prevent clutter from coming back. To briefly summarize her amazing book, if something doesn't "spark joy," you toss it/donate it etc. Simple as that! You can do your home in stages if time is a factor - but do it by category, not just room. For example - you may keep medicines in a closet, bathroom, and your kitchen. In this case, you want to gather every medicine you have in your home and combine/throw out and prioritize. This way you don't have to repeat sorting your medicines in each room it or end up keeping more than you need.
  • Let that Sh*t Go (literally and figuratively). 
    Do you have strong emotional attachments to stuff? Maybe it's because of trauma, mental health, or developmental issues? I strongly suggest working with a professional organizer, therapist and/or caring friends and family members. Set grounds rules with your helpers and anticipate strong emotions to come up. Take stock of your emotions throughout the process, lean on your support system, and take breaks when it gets to be too much.  Set aside a full day or several days to do it and do it only when you are ready.  It may be difficult, but whatever is causing you to hold on to things is not going to be solved simply by organizing your stuff. Until you deal with the underlying issue, it will keep coming back to you. 

Got it? Good! ​Here are 4 Methods to Minimize Clutter, Make Money, & Live Your Best Life:


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